Why Being the Kind Girl Always Pays Off

If you’re anything like me, you’ve found yourself eagerly glued to your television screen every Monday night at 8 PM EST, tuning in for the latest episode of The Bachelor. This season kicked off on a “high note,” with Joey Grazidei earning the well-deserved title of Bachelor Nation’s “favorite Bachelor of all time.”

Joey’s season has captivated fans due to his unwavering commitment to being respectful, genuine, honest, and fully present in every interaction with the contestants. Whether it’s the way he gazes into the women’s eyes on one-on-one dates or wipes away their concealer-filled tears with his thumb, viewers have been on the edge of their seats since the show premiered in late January.

However, amid all the intense relationship dynamics, one connection stood out above the rest. Maria Georgas, a 29-year-old Executive Assistant from Toronto, quickly became one of the first Canadians to capture the hearts of the American audience. From the outset, Maria showcased herself as a bold, strong-minded, and opinionated woman unafraid to defend herself or others.

Maria’s popularity soared when she found herself entangled in a seemingly minor yet messy and over-exaggerated drama on the show. Many Bachelor fans rallied behind Maria, applauding her as a true “girl’s girl” for denouncing ageism concerning an “older” contestant struggling with self-consciousness about being in her 30s. Maria not only sought to bring “peace” and “positivity” to the show but also served as an inspiring example for women—a genuine and effortlessly chic badass.

In recent years, there has been significant discourse about the concept of having “main character energy” (MCE). Whether you’re the main character in your own life or in the lives of others, there’s something crucial about being authentic and standing out. Embodying the main character means leading life with your own powerful narrative, leaving a lasting impression on those around you.

Maria exemplified this “main character energy” throughout the season, drawing both admiration and envy. As someone radiating high vibrations and self-peace, Maria inadvertently disturbed those who lacked the same main character energy. Their response? Constantly having Maria’s name in their mouths—a testament to her impact.

As a young twenty-something myself, my main takeaway from Maria’s journey on The Bachelor is a reminder never to dim your light for others. Natural magnetism and charm may make some feel intimidated, and being the “It Girl” comes with its share of admirers and nay-sayers. What sets Maria apart is her ability to navigate this attention with strength and humility, remaining a beacon of pure grace and authenticity.

In the end, for those born with “main character” qualities, it’s essential to stay strong and humble amidst the attention because being admired is already the greatest blessing. Already, many fans recognize Maria’s star quality and hope to see her be chosen as the franchises the next “Bachelorette”.